Wednesday, November 30, 2016

November 30, 2016 Finding Thankfulness in “Life as is…”

You know how stores will sell products that are damaged in some way at a discounted price? At first glance, you may not see anything wrong with item, but the low price attracts you to it.  Upon closer inspection, you notice the sticker that says, “For Sale AS IS,” which generally means something is “wrong” with it.  It may be a minor defeat, such as uneven stitching in a pair of pants that did not pass quality inspection at the factory, or something major, like a missing part that causes the product not to function as it was intended, but it is still usable in some aspect, especially for the inexpensive price. I have purchased items “as is” before, and I have passed up others that I felt were not worth the discount due to the defect; however, when it comes to life, we often have no choice but to take it “as is.” 
     We are currently living in a very unsettled and divided society, often fueled by fear and a certain controlled chaos, but we don’t have to allow this to unsettle us personally and spiritually.  I, and I believe many others, have been a bit shocked at how personally the recent presidential elections have affected those from both parties.  In my opinion, neither candidate was an ideal choice. For either one or even a third party option, we are taking them “as is” and hoping for the best.  I guess I was surprised though by how many seem to be truly in fear of where the president elect will lead our country. It has become so “doom and gloom.” 
     I often write about fear in this blog, making the point of stressing to others that we should not live in fear. I blog about this, not because I am so good at keeping my own fears at bay, but because I have struggled with fear and control issues, and from many of these issues, God has set me free, one by one, but recently I realized I had begun to live in fear again.  This time, it’s a different issue, more a fear of commitment to my job, a new church, and my continuing walk with God.  For the first 2 years after moving to WA, I was steadily looking and applying for positions elsewhere, mostly overseas. The transition from overseas back to stateside life was tough. (That’s why I stayed there 17 years and was still very afraid to move back, even when we did.) I was unsettled. I was afraid that I had made the wrong choice and drug my patient husband and son with me. I have finally stopped trying to leave, but I have still not fully committed myself to the community here either.  It’s become a bit of an introverted, debilitating fear for me. For example, I’ll attend church, but quickly slip out before I have to talk to anyone. Or I’ll go to the local and on base road races, but I am still hesitant to join one of the running groups I made a New Year’s resolution last year to join.  I’ll put myself out there, but not commit to anything long-term or that requires me to be accountable to anyone. 
     So, even though I still have some of my own fears to overcome as 2017 approaches, I am thankful for my “life as is.”  I’m hoping that by sharing my fears, “the truth will set me free,” so to speak.  Sometimes just saying what your fears are out loud take the scare factor out of them. Let’s just say it then. We’ll all a bit scared of where the country is headed, no matter who is in charge, right?! We’ll all a bit scared to make major changes in our lives to new and unfamiliar places with new and unfamiliar people and unknown experiences.  What now? Well, I’m not in control. You’re not in control. Not even President elect Trump is in control.  God is in control, and that means, I surrender my fears to Him, let go of my control issues (because I can’t control everything anyway), and take life “as is,” believing that God knows what is best and will provide as long as we trust and obey. I know, to many of you, that probably sounds like blind faith that you simply can’t put your trust in, but in these unsettled and chaotic times, would you rather live in “doom and gloom” or try out a little faith in things unseen.  After all, with God on my side, what can mere mortals do to me! J 

When hard pressed, I cried to the Lord;
    he brought me into a spacious place.

The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid.
    What can mere mortals do to me?

The Lord is with me; he is my helper.
    I look in triumph on my enemies.

It is better to take refuge in the Lord
    than to trust in humans.

It is better to take refuge in the Lord
    than to trust in princes.


Psalm 118: 5-9

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