Thursday, December 3, 2015

December 3: Writing Prompt #337-Sink or Swim

Tell us about a time when you were left on your own, to fend for yourself in an overwhelming situation — on the job, at home, at school. What was the outcome?
I was perfectly content in my librarian job at my small town, local library until one day my supervisor asked me to fill in as an instructor at the before and after school program for elementary school students on the island.  I was very unsure about doing this, but knew I really didn’t have a choice as I was told it was very likely that my cushy librarian job was going to go away soon (replaced by community volunteers), and the only other open position my boss could offer me at the time was in the child, youth, and school services department, which I knew literally nothing about. 
So, while still working at the library, I used the hours the library was closed to attend training required before I could even enter the classroom.  I didn’t mind this because I always liked school and excelled at it.  So, I don’t remember the training hours begin particularly overwhelming or challenging, although it was a lot of new information for me.  The next part was to complete my observation hours, in the classroom. My first day watching the controlled chaos that was the program that day definitely overwhelmed me.  Wow!! I left thinking I could never do this job.  The children were loud, rowdy, and did not listen to the two teachers helping out at the time.  After my observation hours were done, that’s when I was thrown in to “sink or swim” as the new lead.  It was quite a learning experience!!
After some time and more training in my new career field, I realized that much of the program I observed in those early, overwhelming days (and even my own overwhelming struggles with the children and program I had been placed in charge of) were due to the fact that the children had not had a steady instructor in their class for quite some time, and so there had been no consistency, rules, planned activities based on the children’s interests, a schedule to follow, or organization of the program because each week might bring a different caregiver, all of whom were just trying to keep the children safe and get through the day until it was time for them to go back to their regular schedule and classroom. Now, it’s not that I didn’t have any experience, but it was limited at that time.  I had teaching experience, but it was at the college level and in job training programs where the age range was 16-20 years old.  I had children of my own by then as well, but they were preschool and kindergarten age when I started as the school age lead instructor.  Working with a diverse group of 5-12 year olds who are all at such different developmental levels was going to prove to be a huge challenge, but the outcome of my sink or swim experience in the school age room?? Well, it proved to be a challenge I was proud to meet and exceed in many ways.  I ended up loving being a school age instructor and within less than 2 years had moved up in the organization to become a teacher trainer to other caregivers, and I’m still in the same organization in yet another unique position today, a position which gives me a chance to not only help in the classrooms, but also manage and train employees.

The funny thing is that I’ve come to realize that teaching, in general, whether you are a college level instructor, an elementary school teacher, or a day care provider, they are all “sink or swim” situations. Sure, you may have a bunch of training or even a college degree and teaching certifications before you take over your own classroom as a lead, but until you’ve had to manage an entire class of students for several hours, you can’t know for sure whether or not you will make it across the pond, and even what age group might be the best fit for you.  I was put into the same type of sink or swim situation when I taught my first English course to a group of Marshallese college students, and I didn’t last 5 minutes before I left the room in tears, so my next teaching sink or swim experience was a bit more successful, thank goodness!! I never thought I would want to teach college English, but was thrown in the waters and ended up LOVING it, just as I really never would have thought I’d lead a before and after school program for elementary school students, but again, I came to love my students as my own children and enjoyed working with them to plan engaging and child-centered activities for us to connect with each other and learn from in so many ways.  Those “sink or swim” moments were the best career moves I ever made. Thank you to those trainers and bosses who knew better than me and taught me how to swim in the waters of childcare and education by simply “tossing me in.” 

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