Where do your morals come from — your
family? Your faith? Your philosophical worldview? How do you deal with those
who don’t share them, or derive them from a different source?
My morals
come from my family, my faith, and my worldview shaped by my experiences both
within and outside of my family and faith.
With those
who don’t share my morals, I try to understand where they are coming from and
why they have the morals (or don’t have morals) that they choose to live
by. Our experiences shape who we are and
sometimes we don’t even know why we think certain ways until someone poses that
question to us. Others just don’t have
the self-esteem, knowledge, guidance, or general purpose in life to care how
they live and how it affects others.
Some do just what their parents or guardians or the world they were
orphaned in taught them to do. They
couldn’t have chosen anything different if they wanted to because who would
have shown them better? For those who don’t have morals, who chose to commit
horrible atrocities on others, I pray for them. I pray that someone or
something will come into their lives and show them a different way and love
them back to health. For those who have
morals I don’t share, I simply try to show them the same love I would show
those who grew up with and have the same faith I do. It’s not my place to judge what or how they
believe, but only to show them kindness and love.
For those
who have similar morals, but derive them from a different source, I try to
learn from them and relate to them through my own beliefs. A good person is a good person, and in my
book, we all come from one maker anyway. He may be called by a different name
in a different culture; some may even worship Him very differently, but He is
still the same maker to me. And once again, my job is to simply love them
the same I would anyone else. I wouldn’t
want the job of being their judge. I’m happy to be tasked with simply making my
best effort to treat others the same way I want to be treated.
1 comment:
Both your grandparents believed as you do. Your preacher granddad of course liked to spell out the consequences of bad decisions. Your Dad should have listened more closely!
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